The Art of Gifting This Holiday Season

Five suggestions to a more thoughtful gift.

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I think we all have that ONE family member that we don’t know what to buy for during Christmas. Yea, stores will suggest tons of ideas for gift giving, but let’s face it, they just want you to spend money on their store… makes sense. Besides, that flashy reindeer sweater Macy’s is pawning off on you is one even uncle Fred wouldn’t be caught dead wearing.

Unfortunately, you can only give someone that same paisley scarf X amount of Christmases in a row. Same goes for wallets, purses, shoes, etc. I think Christmas shopping is a bit more difficult because you are shopping for your entire family, not only one person.  Of course you don’t want to give the same gift to two different people. I am very lucky that I have a tiny family (five people + pets). But for those of you who have 10-30 family members to shop for (bless your heart.. and your pocket), buying gifts can be stressful. Even if you have a small family, gift shopping can get complicated if you don’t do your research. Let’s check out these gift giving strategies that might make Christmas gift giving a bit easier and more fun!

My mother’s handmade “Santa & Friends” wall decor

1. Utilize conversation/text topics/Facebook stalk:
Think about an ongoing theme in conversations or text threads you may have with that person. Sometimes an inside joke said in a text can turn into a great gift idea. Also, I am sure if you are considering getting a Christmas present for someone, you are more than likely their Facebook friend. When it comes to gift giving, you gotta get creative and maybe a do a little bit of FB stalking. This is something I have done before in order to pick up on someone’s interests. Here’s how: 1. Look into the pages that they like. 2. Match those page likings with their FB feed. Remember, FB feeds are constantly updated with someone’s latest topics of interests. Page likes? Not so much. But if you find a topic on a person’s “liked pages” and also on their fb wall, then you know that person is genuinely interested in that one thing. Also, you can always have one of their FB pictures printed onto a mug/t-shirt or simply frame it.

2. Peek in to their bedroom
This one only applies if you know the person closely. Lol. Not if you’re shopping for a co-worker or something like that. Also, when I say peek into their bedroom, I don’t mean psycho-search their bedroom lol. All I say is to look around for maybe movies laying around, posters, records, work out gear, or any undergoing theme. If this person has a set of movies of a certain genre, you may gift him/her a new movie of the same genre or a missing movie from a trilogy. P.S. If you are shopping for a co-worker, look at their desk. What are some things he/she has hanging around? Do they like stationary items? Do they have a plant in their desk?

3. Ask them to put together a Christmas list of 10 items:
Okay, if all comes to worse, have the person put a Christmas list together of the things he/she needs/wants. My family and I started doing this last year and it make Christmas shopping a lot easier. You know you’re getting the person something they want or need. The only disadvantage of this “tip” is that it takes away the element of surprise. That doesn’t mean you can’t put your twist on an item though. If someone asks for, let’s say, a pair of shoes, you can order a pair of socks with pictures/relatable quotes imprinted on them to go with the shoes.

4. Gift a want, not a need:
These are things that people talk about, but won’t ever buy for themselves because they feel morally obligated not to purchase something they don’t need. How do you pick up on a cue of what that “want” may be? Refer to suggestion 1.

55. Pick a special moment with that person and bring it to life:
That one is self-explanatory. But here is an example: During one of my favorite shows, “The Office”, Jim gives Pam a tea pot full of little gifts: a year book picture, a hot sauce package, a small pencil, among other things. All of those little trinkets mean something to Jim and Pam. In the same way, you can pick something as random as socks, and stick little trinkets in them that remind you of certain inside jokes or special events you and that person shared.

Some may say these “tips” may require too much work or are a little bit “too much”. I say that if you’re gonna gift someone something, might as well do it with care and with love. After all, Christmas is the time to give. I am sure that even if a gift isn’t considered “thoughtful” by you, it will still be meaningful to the other person. After all, it’s the thought that counts. Happy Holidays, beautiful people!

Love,
Sirene

Chimney Decor

Grove of the Patriarchs trail

Beauty in all its glory.
Beauty in all its glory.

This place was phenomenal. Some trees in this trail are over 1000 years old, nearly 40 ft. in diameter and more than 300 ft. tall! I felt strange walking through this trail. I was instantly reminded of how many eras these trees have lived through. They were alive when world war II was going on and during the dark ages.  Weirdly enough, it made me think about how these trees were alive when Elvis Presley was alive and when Frank Sinatra was alive, too. I am a huge fan of Frank Sinatra. Knowing that these trees have lived through the years he was alive made me feel warm inside. It may sound childish to link Frank Sinatra’s life to the existence of these trees. Specially when there are far more important people or events that were also alive and going on during those past years. But linking a dead idol to a beautifully living thing that I also love makes me feel happy. It brings about a nostalgia of some sort- a happy one.

How small are we compared to nature.
How small are we compared to nature.
This tree was one of my favorites! I took a picture inside the tree. It's wide enough to fit about two average sized adults inside.
This tree was one of my favorites! I took a picture inside the tree. It’s wide enough to fit about two average sized adults inside its shallow trunk.

Walking through this trail also made me think about how simple life used to be 100-1000 years ago. Life is so different now. I feel technology has made life easier for most of us. Yet, I feel life was much simpler back then; with out all this technology and easy ways of doing things. I guess there is a difference between an easy life and a simple life. I want to live a simple life, not a easy one.

Only one person at a time.
Only one person at a time.
Shallow cascade. The water was so clean and freezing cold.
Shallow cascade. The water was so clean and freezing cold.

This is one of my favorite trails so far.. it truly felt like entering a kingdom.

Some trees have broken and fallen into the trail. It makes the place that much more beautiful.
Some trees have broken and fallen into the trail. It makes the place that much more beautiful.
looking into the woods
looking into the woods
One of my favorite photos. Me on a trunk
One of my favorite photos.

-Sirene